Philandering is an act that is predominant among men and women alike.To
some men this act seem normal due to the erroneous belief that men can
be polygamous, but some women experience philandering due to
narcissistic or even sociopathic mindset.
But as they say,it
is a cruel world of men and often times the women are at the receiving
end of this reckless act so this write up is directed to men and women
alike but with more focus on the men and this write up will list 5ways
you can prevent philandering or reduce the act to the barest minimum
1.Accept that it is a reckless and destructive act to you mentally,physically,Financially and spiritually:
Yes as sweet as philandering may seem to be, it is a very destructive
act because it can lead you to eternal destruction of your soul as the
Quran and Bible suggested and i believe your soul is worth more than the
flimsy passion of exploring many death traps in the name of women.
Asides this you can readily contract deadly infections and many men have
had sexual encounters with different spiritual beings in the name of
women and not forgetting the fact that in most cases,the act of
philandering tend to make you spend excessively as you will need to
spend on the side chicks from time to time just to satisfy your lustful
desire.
2.Understand that Philandering is more than a regular bad habit but a demonically influenced act:
I have always counseled many ladies that they can not nag a man out of
philandering but can only pray him out of it because most times,the men
who indulge in it are influenced by demonic spirits so if you are a man
who wants to stop or prevent this then you must be willing to pray to
GOD to prevent the spirit from possessing you and to help you cast it
out of you because this is one act you can not stop on your own.
3.Go for a lady that turns you on physically:I
always have a slogan that i will rather remain single for life than
marry a woman that does not appeal to me physically. Yes they say
choosing a wife is more than the physical attributes but nevertheless i
believe you can always get a lady who has a good attribute as well as a
good physical appeal.
Why should a man who loves a bootilicious
lady settle for a flat ass? and if you love a big body lady why settle
for a slim one?I remember having an affair with a lady while i was in
the university and at a point i began to pray that GOD should make this
lady develop some sexual features..
"can you imagine?"
If you
love a busty lady and you settle for a small cup size then you just
might fantasize about huge bust-line whenever you make out with a wife
with a small cup size and to me,this is perpetual self inflicted bondage
because there are billions of ladies out there single and ready to
mingle so why pick the one that does not turn you on just by her
physical appearance.
4.Accept the fact that no lady has the monopoly of beauty:No
matter how sexy or outwardly beautiful your woman may be,there will
always be a lady sexier and more attractive than her out there and you
are bound to meet many of such so if you are the type who can't take his
eyes away from every sexy damsel then you just might be on a fast track
to your grave because you can never outdo these daughters of eve who
are always willing to show you the fastest way to hell. Just make that
choice and do your best to maintain your choice by helping her retain
her sexy figure in anyway you can.Learn to appreciate and be content
with what you have because in actual fact,its the same hole and same
pleasure,just that it is the skills that differs so teach her the skills
rather than seek for a facade in the name of varieties.
5.It takes the fear of GOD and great discipline to do away with philandering:
It is practically almost impossible for a man who does not fear GOD to
desist from this pleasurable but deadly act so as a lady you must pray
and try to lead your man closer to GOD because if a man fears GOD then
apparently he will make you happy and for the man please understand that
you must practically go closer to GOD so that your love and fear for
him will keep you away from this act.
Yes the act of
philandering is a strong one that tends to enslave any susceptible
person and it is not want anyone can just wish away but with GOD i
believe that it can be prevented.
GOD HELP US. and I hope this helps
Mr Lalasticlala...how you dey?
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